Comments on: Tip 1: Do not take things personally

By: corina

corina — Tue, 16 Apr 2019 05:09:31 +0000

I don’t tend to take things personally only sometimes it depends on the person or situation I am in.

By: WLKHS2214

WLKHS2214 — Tue, 26 Mar 2019 23:00:54 +0000

Depending on who I am talking to, I will take things personally. I would like to say that I think before I act or say out of aggression but most of the time when I am in the heat of the moment, some words might come out of my mouth that I don’t mean.

By: wlkhs2211

wlkhs2211 — Fri, 08 Mar 2019 15:20:32 +0000

i don’t usually take things personally unless its directed towards me.

By: WLKHS2206

WLKHS2206 — Fri, 08 Mar 2019 15:17:18 +0000

I try to not take things personally. It depends on how I see the situation and then I will decide if it was personal or not.

By: WLKHS2209

WLKHS2209 — Fri, 08 Mar 2019 15:15:18 +0000

I do tend to take things personally. I take things personally when it is appropriate to, if you are an adult you should think and have a reasoning behind the things you say, When someone says something and includes a tone that corresponds with that I allow myself to take it personally because it will lend to knowing more about your relationships with the people around you. Even though I think it is to do with my personality, I reassure myself that the people around me may just not like me, and it can be their problem not mine, I think I can improve this and just be blissfully oblivious, but I do not think that will help me either, that will be more detrimental to my life. It is good to be aware and handle the situation accordingly, but I know I should not blame it on myself.

By: 2220

2220 — Fri, 08 Mar 2019 15:14:42 +0000

Yes, I do tend to take things personally when most of the time I know I shouldn’t. I get hung up on comments people say and can’t help it. It’s hard to really realize that not everything that is said towards you, is not particularly reflecting you as a person.

By: WLKHS2217

WLKHS2217 — Fri, 08 Mar 2019 15:13:52 +0000

I do not tend to take things personally. I can almost always shrug things off, because most of the time simple things happen that shouldn’t be taken personally. However, if a topic becomes personal, then I do take it personally because it isn’t so simple. Usually it’s in a deep discussion when I can take some things personally.

By: WLKHS2213

WLKHS2213 — Fri, 08 Mar 2019 15:11:24 +0000

It depends on the situation and how I feel about it. For instance, if my friend tells me to shut up after I say something funny, I don’t take it personally because I know he/she is joking around and isn’t intending to be mean. However, if I overhear someone talking about me negatively behind my back, I would take it personally because it would make me feel hurt and believe that I did something wrong, even if I didn’t do anything.

By: wlkhs2207

wlkhs2207 — Fri, 08 Mar 2019 15:10:37 +0000

Yes, I personally used to take everything personally. Although I realize that not everything is directed at me, it is definitely hard to decipher what is and what is not. However, I think that I now understand that nothing that anyone says about you or does to you matters, as long as you stay true to yourself and you know who you are as a person.

By: WLKHS2210

WLKHS2210 — Fri, 08 Mar 2019 15:10:22 +0000

It’s usually 50/50 for me. I tend to take things personal if it’s said or done by someone who I care about or know very well and not as much if it’s from someone I don’t really care about. I usually get bothered by why the person would say or do what they did and not what they did.